Lying

so last november my husband got home from iraq still smoking after he promised for the second time he would be done, the first was in Virginia when he said he wouldnt smoke anymore then went training and would hide the fact he was smoking 9had to hear about it from others)! well he didnt quit! he was using the star not telling me the bills would never get to us (but he was the one getting the mail so obviously he threw they away), then i finally accessed it online and ya so all these charges to basically max out the card (8000$) so now we r in more debt then ever and he wonders why he cant go out or get a 6pack... ok well back to the lying... so the other day he spent money from an account that is suppose to pay for his wow... i check it periodically to make sure its not overdrawn or anything... well he never said whta he bought and i didnt question it until the other nite when the bathroom smelled like smoke! he tried to say it was from being at the range... i believed him until i found the smokes then i flipped! started checking cards and realized he is a liar!!

if he lied about this little thing why wouldnt he lie about a gf or other small things??!! so now we are fighting and not talking and i am just ready to be done!!

why cant he just be honest, honey sorry i am stressed about deployment and everything so i have been smoking! is it that hard? yes i know i would be mad but not as hurt as i am about the lying straight to my face!! ahhh ok done venting time to shower and go about my day...