doormat

so that is how I feel lately with certain people in my life...

let me explain:
so this girl who's hubby is in my hubby's company (lower rank-not that I care at all), use to have a circle of friends (yes that is what they called themselves not me-middle school much)... well one day they all stopped talking to her cause of drama she started "supposely"... (talked about it before- a wife was being choked and she told me then the one who was choked tried to mess with my hubbys career)... anyways, the wife who told me seems to not have any friends, I dont mind hanging out with her since our daughters are close in age and can play and we can just hang out (I dont' mind listening to the drama but I don't want to be in the middle of it)... but it seems like she only wants to talk when her hubby isn't home or doing soemthing to piss her off or if she needs a ride somewhere... I am not saying I wouldn't give her a ride but I am tired of being used, guess is the best way to put it... next week the guys are gone so I wouldn't be suprised she tries to call me all the time to "hangout"... she once even mentioned how she hasn't been off post in forever, their car needs to be fixed but for some reason they haven't done it yet and her man drives it to work everyday... and then the other day he went golfing instead of being there for her, not to mention how much they need to clean their house! (dead flies just laying on the ground and her feet are black when she hasnt moved from the couch!-so nasty) I understand she is pregnant but he has been getting off early every day he could help... just my opinion

so I don't even know what to say to her... I don't want to be her friend when she has no one cause that is extremely draining on me and lately when I want to scream I start a fight for no reason with the hubby just so I can yell... I know its wrong but what can I say to her? she lost all her other friends for doing the right thing (in my opinion) and the guys are worse about the gossip then the wives (just saying)!! I am not a temporary friend but she makes me feel that way! I don't mind being there when she needs it but its definately a one sided friend and I have no idea how to let her know its not cool............


ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.... well back to homework and pretending my phone is dead (heheh i know shitty but what can i do)